But he likes it short...

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I found these hair-spiration images and immediately saved them to remind me why I'm growing my hair out. Whenever I start to have a little bit of growth past my shoulders, I suddenly have the urge to go back to my angled bob. The grass is always greener isn't it...

After I had washed and dried and flat-ironed my locks, and felt really happy with the end result (seriously, alcohol-free is good for the hair), Ryan says, "I really like when your hair is short. Its pretty that way." Ugghhhhhhhhh. I have been growing it out for the wedding because there is so much more you can do with more length, but how can I argue with that! He never tells me he likes my hair! (well, I suppose he just did-- and the winner is short.)

(the last time I angled my bob, Feb. 2010)

So therein lies the problem. I know ultimately the decision of how I want my hair to look on my wedding day is mine (and MOH's). I thought that years from now, when I'm looking at photos, I'd want to see long and healthy tresseses shining back at me. But lets be honest. I wouldn't wear my hair DOWN for the wedding. There would be some form of up-do. And we could use extentions for that. The only time I like wearing my hair down is when its short and framing my face.

Short or Long? Bangs or no Bangs? Does every bride lament this decision?